Love...
Four little letters. Statement, question, accusation, wish? However you take the Love in your life, this one word can have the most far reaching and life changing of affects. Whether we like it or not, the world seems to revolve around this one little emotion. Wars (if we believe in the likes of Anthony and Cleopatra and Paris and Helen) have been fought for it, monuments have been erected to the longevity and eternal nature of it, plays have been written chronicling it and the English language has been butchered by the music industry to do it justice. For those in it, those looking for it, and those futilely trying to hide from it, Love is everywhere.
A lifetime of memories, hundreds of adventures, countless new horizons and one Love who is worth all of it |
Four little letters. Statement, question, accusation, wish? However you take the Love in your life, this one word can have the most far reaching and life changing of affects. Whether we like it or not, the world seems to revolve around this one little emotion. Wars (if we believe in the likes of Anthony and Cleopatra and Paris and Helen) have been fought for it, monuments have been erected to the longevity and eternal nature of it, plays have been written chronicling it and the English language has been butchered by the music industry to do it justice. For those in it, those looking for it, and those futilely trying to hide from it, Love is everywhere.
The Love/Hate thing... I remember when a boy pushing a girl over meant that he liked her. Weird how these playground antics carry over to bundling in the snow at the age of 28 |
Now before you all reach for the emergency chord to bail out
of some utterly cringe worthy post, I am not taking about me and my +1. Whilst we’re perfectly content in our little rose-tinted bubble of affectionate
bickering and annoying each other, this discussion of the heart goes way beyond
both he and I. Forty years of unrequited, fought for, and finally accepted and
acknowledged Love is something which not many of us will ever experience. When
you come across it though, you can’t help but pay homage to it.
My great uncle was 88 and he was in love with the same woman
for 40 years. They never lived together, and they never married because he was
too shy to ask her for her hand. Instead they travelled the world, saw so many
new horizons and experienced everything they possibly could. He died last week.
She is heartbroken.
"Grief is the price we pay for Love" |
It is to these two wonderful people that the next couple of
posts are dedicated. I don’t believe that words can ever do justice to this
emotion and what it feels like when it is snatched from us. That said, some of
the most poignant and truthful things written about Love are recorded in the
shadow of death. Morbidly enough, one of my favourite sentiments about Love
comes from a headstone, it reads: Death
leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
"Death is a challenge.
It tells us not to waste time...it tells us to
tell each other right now that we love each other."
Leo Buscaglia |
When words fail though, and that magic cup of tea (or glass of champagne if it's a really special occasion!) simply
can’t help you express your feelings, art can sometimes find the right path to
tread. So much of what we feel as people travelling through this world is based
around or linked to Love in some way; to say there’s a lot of subject matter
would be an understatement. Add to that the ways in which attitudes to the
depiction of Love have changed over the years and suddenly what you can talk
about grows exponentially.
Unimaginable highs and the loneliest of lows, Love can throw them all our way, but with so much scope for subject matter, for artists, the sky is the limit. |
Now we all know I can
witter about most things until the cows come home, go to bed and get up the
next morning, but I promise I’ll keep these entries palatable and interesting,
beginning with depictions of the Classics. Oh yes, we’re going old school!